Needless to say, there are plenty of men looking for women, and many of them don’t have the faintest idea how to go about it. Some men will put women on a pedestal and treat them as queens, while others will play the bad boy angle. Either way, their goals remain the same, and that is to attract women.
The fact is that women want men, just as much as men want women. The only difference, however, is that women will only settle for alpha males, which is to say that women only want men who display all the qualities of success and power. There are several evolutionary reasons on why this is the case. For one thing, the female imperative is to seek a good provider. Success and power means more security, luxury and excitement. In many cases, it also means stronger or brighter children.
So it doesn’t matter which strategy you use to attract girls. If a guy cannot project himself as a successful man then even the nicest girls will not notice him. This does not mean, however, that you need to become a hairy chested ex-Navy Seal or a young aggressive millionaire (though it helps if you are). What you really need to do show women that you are a successful man, with an aggressive personality and who is kinda bored with sex. Why? Because that’s how women perceive alpha males.
So if you’re wondering how to sell yourself as an alpha male, here are several tips to help you get started.
– For starters, learn a new skill. Learn to play an instrument, speak a foreign language or fight like a veteran martial artists. These traits can make you look interesting, and more complex. Learning a particular skill will also allow you to project a more sophisticated side to your personality. So you need to cultivate them whenever possible.
– Next, try to appear superior to the women you talk to. Women tend to look favorably on men who seem to outrank them. This doesn’t mean that you should strut around like jerk, but you will need to look like you’ve made it in life if you want to get their attention. After all, nothing says alpha male than superiority and success.
– Finally, try to be aggressive in your approach. For example, if you’re looking at a pretty girl, don’t turn away when she looks right back at you. Look her straight in the eye and smile. Even if she dismisses you, you will still be able to show other women nearby that you’re a confident man. Remember, confidence is something that you do, not something you learn.
