Oh, You Flirt! Talking Flirtatiously and Romantically

Talking to your man is never a problem, right? Simply talking is an easy thing, but do you find yourself at a loss when it comes to putting yourself into that role that has him saying “She’s my best friend” or letting him know how you truly feel about him other than saying “I love you”? Well, I have good news for you. I have three tips here for talking to your man that will help you be fun, flirty, and romantic. Keep reading and I’ll tell you all about it.

Like One of the Guys

You know how guys are when they’re hanging out, right? No, I don’t mean the horny dogs that are sexing every woman they see with their eyes and drooling like asylum patients. I mean with how they talk and interact with each other. Ribbing and joking, teasing and insulting, things like that. Well, you can be like this as well. Start teasing your man, giving him a hard time like his guy friends too.

Of course, you’ll need to keep in mind not to overdo it or you could end up hurting his feelings. Also, don’t forget to smile when you say it, don’t make it too mean, and be sure to let him know that you’re joking. You might be thinking “Why not turn it on like his friends do?” Well, there’s a reason for not carrying it all the way to their level just yet. That reason is this: He expects that stuff from his guy friends, not from you. Once he sees what you’re doing, he will likely appreciate the fact that you’re trying to be a cut-up sometimes like his friends. He’ll know that you’re trying to be a buddy as well as his lady.

Secret, Secret, I’ve Got a Secret

I’ve heard that guys do this to women to get them hot and it works. Well, we can do the same thing to them. You say you have something to tell him, but it’s a secret so he’ll have to come over to you so you can whisper it in his ear. Once he’s there, give him a compliment, such as telling him how hot he looks in whatever it is that he’s wearing, be it a shirt, or a certain pair of jeans, something like that. A good example would be telling him how great his butt looks in that pair of jeans.

Tell Him How You Really Feel

If you love your man, tell him in ways more than the simple three words. True, they can convey more than that, but it helps to let him know in different words. Tell him how much he means to you, but don’t spout this off to him all day long. If you do that, then the meaning will become lost and the words will seem less genuine. Make sure you show him as well as tell him how he makes you feel and how you feel for him. Let it show in everything you do for him. Let it shine in your affections toward him.

He’ll feel it in the way you kiss him and hold him, see it in your eyes and your smile, even feel it in the touch of your hand. This is the best way to express your feelings for him. Doing this will make his heart melt the way yours does when he reciprocates for you.

It’s that simple. Three ways that you will make his heart flutter and make him hot under the collar. For more tips on how to flirt with him or those sweet nothings you can whisper in his ear, subscribe to my newsletter for useful advice on love, dating, and relationships.